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What I like about January 1 is that is tends to be a nice and quiet day, usually quite relaxing, like a breath you take before a new year starts.

We drove over to my parents' yesterday in the morning for the New Year celebrations. We always celebrate at home as it is a family holiday for us. We Skyped with relatives in Minsk and in California to wish them Happy New Year and just to chat and chilled a bit. Around 5:30 we all dressed up, mostly in red and pink colors, for the upcoming Rooster year, (except Bear who was a black rooster), and took lots of annual photos around the New Year fir tree. Then we had our holiday dinner. So much yummy food! My Mom made the usual olivier salad and pod-shuba (beets with herring), crab salad, fish liver salad and beets/plums/nuts salad. She also made regular veggie salad and cabbage/egg pie. And for main course there was meat french style (meat covered with potatoes and dried apricots). And there were open faced sandwiches with salmon and also with caviar. And bread, of course. So much food! (and lots of leftovers for today). In the past, I wasn't always a big fan for beets and herring classic, but I'm really into it lately.

After this giant meal, we did bedtime for Tanya and I put her to bed. I was pretty much falling asleep with her but my Dad made sure to get me up by 10:30pm to sneak out of the bedroom so I could come downstairs and have some desert - they got fruit tart cake, and there was zefir (marshmallows in chocolate), and dried fruit, with tea, of course.

Then we mostly watched TV and hung out until midnight and watched the ball drop while drinking some sparkling juice. Then I just went to bed, I was very tired. But, of course, I couldn't easily fall asleep once I was in bed and the night was a bit restless. Still, it was a good calm new years, full of deliciousness and family time, just the way I like it.

In the morning, Tanya slept in until 7:30am, but then we all got up, got dressed and went downstairs to the New Year tree to open presents that Ded Moroz (Russian Santa) left for Tanya (and a couple for Bear and I) under the tree. Tanya got 4 books (2 from me - Crocodile Gena in Russian and one of the Elephant and Piggie books in English, and 2 from my parents - both in English - 5 minute Princess Stories and When the Tiger Came to Tea). And she got a little magnet fishing game, which is also a puzzle, and a nice tea set with toy dishes, cups, tea pot, forks and spoons. She is playing with all her new toys. I got Bear a Deadpool graphic novel he wanted (we split our presents to each other in two - some for Christmas and some for New Year) and my parents got him an Amazon gift certificate. I got "Star Trek Beyond" from Bear and the last Leonard Cohen CD and a book by Stefan Zweig from my parents. I was very happy with my presents. I'm listening to Leonard Cohen right now - which is a little bittersweet.

Around 9:30am, Bear, Tanya and I went to the playground. The weather was beautiful today, not too cold, and sunny. Tanya went on her little tricycle, which she actually pedaled by herself a little bit today. It felt like the whole world was still asleep. There was no one about and very little cars on the road. We had the playground to ourselves. Well, and the three squirrels who kept chasing each other. I had fun watching them. There was also a field full of geese right outside the playground - we watched them walk around a bit in the little puddle. They had black necks and white faces with black beaks and white bellies. Tanya really liked watched them. It was just very relaxing to spend time together, chase Tanya a little around and go down a few slides. It was only when we were about to leave after 11 when someone else came. New Year is definitely a nice quite day.

I even got a little nap in when Tanya went for a nap and read my book too. I'm reading "It's hard to Be a God" now and the main character's attitude to the culture he's studying is driving me a little crazy. I go from liking the book to slowing down in wanting to read it because of the whole "civilized" attitude of the protagonist. Reading Strugaski brothers is always strange though.

We came home after all the naps, I unpacked (including all the holiday food my Mom passed along, yum), paid the January bills (at least for this apartment, still have to do the new one), and just catching up online a bit. Overall, a nice day.

I don't do New Year resolutions but I guess I want to try to be more present and not waste too much time online. And read and write, of course.

I'm not very concerned about LJ issues, I don't write anything that should matter to any government, and I have been cross posting from Dreamwidth for years - in fact it remains my face. But if anyone wants to add me on DW for back-up, I have the same username .

My Remus/Sirius Small Gifts story was posted a week or so go. It's called Christmas in July. If you are curious you can read it here.

And finally my Book List 2017 is here with books I would like to read this year.
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We went to Long Island for the weekend. We drove in early yesterday morning and just got back about an hour and a half ago. It was a really fun October/Halloween type weekend. When we got in, we almost immediately drove to the local library with Bear's Mom since there was a little farm animal exhibition in the courtyard. It wasn't very large. Some goats, ducks, bunny, 2 pigs and 2 chickens. Tanya watched them but she really didn't want to pet any of them - she's been cautious lately. She does pet the cat at Bear's parents's house but not the farm ones. She did look at the ducks for a while. But mostly she just wanted to run around the grass and the nice courtyard grounds.

In the afternoon, Bear, Tanya, I, Carrie (Bear's sister) and Bear's Mom all drove out to the pumpkin patch to get some pumpkins. Tanya got very excited as she loves pumpkins. She constantly plays with our pumpkin decorations. And when she was the field full of pumpkins she got a super excited look on her face and even flailed her arms. She ran around, tried to pick many up and generally had lots of fun. We ended up picking up 6 small pumpkins and Bear's Mom got a big one. We wanted to paint them at home so got enough for everyone. We will eat them later after Halloween. Tanya also had fun picking up little gourds.

When we got home, I put an apron on her and a bandana in her hair and we let her try paints for the first time as we painted pumpkins. That was so much fun. She didn't get paint over herself that much. She learned to put the paintbrush in water and wanted to wipe the brush with a rag herself when trying different colors. She looked like a hippie painter - it was really awesome. Painting is not something I want to do at home yet - too messy - but it was great at grandma's.

Tonight Carrie got her a little witch mask at a dollar store to try one. We all pretended to be scared when Tanya put the mask on which she found hilarious. And she liked to run at the mirror to see the mask. Bear just liked putting her Darth Vader mask on so he could say, "Tanya, I am your father." So good visit. I even got some grading done and watched more Luke Cage and Flash Season 2 and read my book.

Over this weekend I ended up reading two wonderful articles from the New Yorker . The first one was about Ursula Le Guin and her life. I read two of her books (Left Hand of Darkness and Lavinia ) and I want to read more but she's not my favorite writer, although I loved Left Hand of Darkness. I feel her writing stays with you. But it is a little two philosophical for me. Still, she's amazing in many ways and it was really interesting to read about her life, her family and her writing process.

The second article was about Leonard Cohen. I read it today. Thoroughly. Not skimming anything, taking in every word. He is one of my favorite musicians. His work is poetry to me. (Incidentally, I was surprised but very pleased with Bob Dylan winning the Nobel Prize for Literature. I think it's really cool. And this article interviews Dylan too). Many compared Cohen's songs to prayer and I tend to agree. I rarely go to concerts but I went to his in spring of 2013 and it was so wonderful. He was so impressive and wonderful live. And this article was so well written. I made me tear up at one point when I was reading the email he wrote to his dying friend. Just a gorgeous article.

Two wonderful articles:

1. One on Leonard Cohen

2. One on Ursula Le Guin


Book Meme
15. The book that you reread over and over again and get new things from every time

I don't really reread books. I guess Harry Potter comes the closest as I notice new details. Oh, and Shakespeare. If I reread a play or see one I already read, I definitely get new things out of it. I think when we reread books, new things are inevitable, especially if we read them at different ages.

16. The book that you don’t dare reread for fear it won’t be the same any more

I'm not sure. There are movies I don't want to see because I loved the book so much but I can't think of a book that I don't dare reread, mostly because I don't usually reread book very much. I guess Mary Stewart's Merlin books since I loved them so much and they were such an essential influence. I was thinking about rereading them but I am a little afraid, I guess, so they don't disappoint.
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My Aunt Vera (my Mom's sister) is visiting from Minsk, Belarus for a month. She came on September 25 and is visiting until October 23. And today, her best friend Marina, who lives in Israel now, is coming to visit until October 23rd too. They are all staying with my parents. So my Mom's house is pretty full. (Their other friend is coming from Chicago for a long weekend too this Saturday. Too many guests :) ) I'm staying with parents this week with Tanya from Monday to Friday and then I will be home for three weeks. My Dad is sad about it since he loves to come home from work and play with his granddaughter.

What this means today is that Tanya has many caretakers and Aunt Vera is out walking with her now while Tanya sleeps in her pram. And I get a few hours of free time where I can go on the internet or read my book. What this means next week, when Bear is overnight at his parents from Tuesday to Saturday, is just me and Tanya and long, long days.

Two things in today's post:

1. I got the new Leonard Cohen CD "Popular Problems." His voice managed to get even deeper. As usual, his songs and his poetry of the songs is fantastic. I even gave my Aunt the iPod on her walk yesterday so she could listen to it. She doesn't speak English but she really liked the voice and the music. And Tanya listened to it yesterday with me too - it is never too early to listen to good music.

2. R/S Games have started posting. It is certainly my favorite fest of fanfic because I love Remus and Sirius so much and the quality of the writing and art always amazes me. I just read a story today "Within White Space" that was just beautiful Muggle AU based of Walt Whitman prompt. Gorgeous. I wrote a story for the fest too; it is a short one this year but their themes always inspire.
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I’m not Catholic (or Christian) but I know a lot about Christianity because I’m a medieval historian by training. I definitely know more than my husband, who was born Catholic and grew up Catholic (He went to Catholic school until college and was even an altar boy. He is agnostic now). I’m even giving a lecture on early Christianity in my history classes on Monday (which is great timing). So I was following the whole Papal election with interest and I turned in on the Internet to see the new Pope first emerge from those balcony doors.

I find the ceremony of it pretty cool most likely because of such a long history of it. I could follow the Latin too, since church/prayer Latin at these ceremonies is pretty basic, and I was surprised by the new Pope choosing Francis as his name, since I could not remember another Pope by that name. And there wasn’t. Which is a very deliberate choice, I think. He looked a bit stunned standing there, looking at the giant crowd.

I’m home today because of Spring Break in Local College and I’m glad I got to see a historical event.

Another reason I’m happy it’s Spring Break at Local College is that I had Monday off too and I could have a very fabulous and awesome day. I love living in New York but it is not always easy. The rent is ridiculous and so is the commute to work and city taxes are pretty high. But there are days like Monday that remind me of why it is so wonderful to live in New York City and have access to great cultural things.

Last week, I entered the online lottery at Met Opera website for the Final Dress Rehearsal to “Traviata” and I actually won two free tickets. I called my Mom with the exciting news, since I was taking her with me, of course, and while talking to her I looked up the production and who was singing. And I saw that Placido Domingo is singing Germont (the father).

I didn’t want to jinx it, like if I got sick or anything, even when I went to pick up the tickets like Friday, so I didn’t allow myself to become too excited. But everything went without a hitch and my Mom and I got to sit in a box in Parterre (the most amazing seats I’ve ever had) on Monday morning and watch the most amazing version of “Traviata” I ever saw and Placido Domingo sing live, right in front of me. It was the first time he was singing Germont, he used to always be Alfredo. The other two main actors were incredible too. The main soprano, Diana Damrau, was so good. Not just her singing, but her acting too. Her body just made me believe her emotions. And Saimir Pirgu as Alfredo was right there too. I’ve seen “Traviata” before, just last May, but this cast just made me fall in love with this opera. And I loved that I watch the dress rehearsal too, with various directors sitting in the orchestra, checking the libretto and other performance detail. Really seeing it fresh. I felt like such a part of it. Two days later I still can’t believe that happened.

After the opera, Mama and I had lunch and walked in the Upper West Side for about an hour before she went home and I went to a café to grade before heading to tutor a student. The weather was nice and warm and it felt like the best Spring Break day. I had to grade a lot Monday night and Tuesday, but I didn’t mind.

While we were waiting in the morning for the opera, Mama and I also bought tickets to the Ring Cycle for April. Four operas in a week. I’m pretty much spending all my birthday money on this, but I wanted to try to see it for a few years now, so I hope it will be worth it. I’m not sure with Wagner but we’ll see.

And, for my last cultural spending spree, last Friday I also stopped by Radio City Hall and bought a ticket (and I don’t want to think about how much that cost) to Leonard Cohen concert on April 7th. I’m going to go by myself to that (see expensive tickets) but I’m really excited. I rarely go to live concerts but I heard so many good things about Cohen’s concerts and I love his music. I rarely go out, so all these outings feel very indulgent.

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